Inside My Cerebrum..

It’s actually really funny how simple advice is when it comes to relationships. It’s so logical but yet we complicate it so much. I think we tend to not follow the advice maybe because we don’t think it’ll work. It seems easy but then again, I’ve never been in an actual relationship so who am I to say anything? I guess my question to the people in the universe who are in a relationship with problems is why would you not want to better your relationship? I don’t know everyone’s situation but I wonder when the breaking point is. Then again, when it comes to friendship relationships I would be hypocrite. I had a guy best friend at one point. One of the best guys around, but we had our own problems. Some very irrational. Some very real. I could have made it work. I could have turned an ugly situation into a wonderful thing, but I didn’t want to. I think I didn’t want to because of the possibilities that could come from it. I think  at that time I was afraid that I could be happy. ...

First things first, if you have never people watched then I suggest you google "how to people watch" and then do it and then come back.  For one of our assignments in class this week we were asked to "practice your observation skill" which in layman's terms means to people watch. Specifically we were asked to observe how families interact with each other and try to understand what unspoken rules there were when they acted with each other. It was a familiar and interesting assignment. It was familiar because it takes me back to all the times I would go out to eat with my dad. If we sat down in a booth or table he would always pick the seat where he would be able to see a majority of the people in the restaurant. In doing that, he would watch people and how they interacted with each other. It was interesting and fascinating to him. Something that I realized down the road was that, while he was studying other people, I was studying him. Every now and th...